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The Meaning of 14th every month in Korea (July~December)

Published March 28, 2012 by kwanshim

July 14th — Silver Day

It’s the happiest and the most impressing day for the couples in Korea. How come?!  Just imagine it! They can freely ask their friends to treat them eating or watching some movies. This day can be as the declaration day of a couple’s relationship toward their friends. And then, it’s also called as ‘Silver Day’, because every couple will exchange the silver accesories toward each other. Ouchh, it’s undeniably sweet~~!!!


August 14th — Green Day

In this day, it’s not the time for the couples to listen the song of Green Day (U.S band), such as ‘American Idiot’, but they will take a walk together, go on a date at the city park, or go hiking to the mountain with the green dress-code. Wow!! The Korean teenagers are all loving the nature so much. After that, they will drink ‘soju’ (Korean rice wine) and have fun together.

September 14th — Photo and Music Day

From the name of the day, of course the activities done by the young couples in South Korea must be related to photo and music. They will take a photo together with, but the difference is they will use the Polaroid camera or Photobox, so the result will directly and instantly come out. The selected photoshoot location is the place full of that couple’s sweet memories. Then, at the evening, that couple will hang out with their friends, like going to ‘Noraebang’ (karaoke place) or the nightclub to have fun.

October 14th — Wine Day

In this day, the couples will go on a date then have a romantic candle-light dinner and  drink wine together. Therefore, Wine Day is prohibitedly be celebrated  by the underage couples, because in Korea, they are still not allowed to consume wine. This is the special occassion for the couple in Korea, because wine is specially be drunk in the special occassion only.

November 14th — Movie Day and Orange Day

As the name, it is the day when the couples will go to watch some movies in cinema. But, different from the usual day, at this time, they will go to cinema in orange dress-code. Yup!! Most of the couple will wear orange-colored clothes. Hmm. . . hmm. . . Make sure  to take your attention toward your couple well, or else they will be exchanged. Hehehe. . .

December 14th — Hug Day

In the Hug Day, the couples in Korea will hug each other for thanking God becuase they had been becoming someone special for the person they love. The hugging time is not just for the couples, but also for families and friends. Usually, some Koran celebrities will hold a special Hug Day for fan service. The hug is not only the symbol of love and affection, but also to warm up each other on the winter day.

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Tabloid GAUL edisi 07 Tahun X/14-20 Februari 2011 (Translated into English by Kwanshin a.k.a Me!!!)

 

The Meaning of 14th every month in Korea (January~June)

Published March 28, 2012 by kwanshim

 

We all know that Valentine Day are being celebrated by all of the people (mostly teenagers) around the world, with nearly the same festivities. But, do you know that in South Korea, at the date of  in every month—January until December—Korean teenagers celebrate any kinds of days (of course related to love, since it’s being celebrated by the teenagers). That kinds of celebrations are still not common amongst us, whereas, they are so romantic and unique!!

          So, I will not babble too much. . . Just check it out!!

 

January 14th — Diary Day

In the opening month of the year, in the, every couple in South Korea will exchange their diary book or annual notebook. The diary or the notebook will be used to record all of the impressive happenings between them, for that whole year!!! And, if their relationship is still long lasting until the next year, they will do it again and again year by year. So that, it will be easier to commemorate all of their sweet memories together. It’s so sweet, isn’t it??!

February 14th — Valentine Day

In the other countries, Valentine Day is commonly the moment for the dating couple to exchange a gift toward each other, but in South Korea, Valentine Day is the time for the girls to give a chocolate gift for the boys who they had a crush on. The girls will confess their love toward the boys through the chocolate gifts. OK, it means that the girls are ‘shooting’ or confessing their love first, which is unusual in our culture.  Well. . . It seemed like the epoch has been changing. . .

March 14th — White Day

Yakkk!!! This is the most awaited day by all of the girls who had been giving the chocolate and confessing their love a month ago at the Valentine Day. In that day, it’s the time for the boys to give chocolate, flowers, or another special gifts for the girls who had confessed their love. With the boys giving some gifts, the girls’s feeling will not be a one-sided love. How romantiiiicc~!! If the boys give the white marshmallows or the white chocolates, it means that they accept the girls’s love confession. If they give candies, it means that they just treat the girls as their friends. But, if the boys give the white handkerchief, it means that they reject the girl’s confession. Owww. . . How sad!!

April 14th — Black Day

Every March, , the single people or the people who’s getting rejected will ‘celebrate’ that day by eating jjajangmyun (Korean black noodles) or another black-colored foods, just like the name of the day. In this day, maybe the whole Korea will be dominated by the dark auras from the single people. OK, no offence!!

May 14th — Rose Day or Yellow day

Just like the previous dates of , there is a special ‘rite’ to celebrate this day. In this date, the dating couple will give the roses toward each other, while the single men or women will hang out together to eat curry (which is yellow-colored) to enjoy their single time. They usually will use the same yellow dress-code, so that the day called as ‘Yellow Day’.

June 14th — Kiss Day

Just from the name, we surely can guess what the young couples in South Korea will do in this date. In this day, the couples will hang out together then, it will be ended by cheesy yet sweet love confession and gentle kiss. Hmmmm. . . Teenagers~~

 

VILLANELLE AGAIN~~

Published March 28, 2012 by kwanshim

FALLING STAR

When you are wishing upon a falling star.

Seemed like your dreams will possibly come true.

Sliding on the night sky like a diamond bar.

Try picking up the star that seemed so far.

In your daydream beneath the sky of dark blue.

When you are wishing upon a falling star.

Gazing at the star that seemed so bizarre.

Coming to give people a bunch of hope.

Sliding in the night sky like a diamond bar.

 There is nothing to do of who you are.

Every people has the right to pursue.

When you are wishing upon a falling star.

Glowing in gold like a trophy of Oscar.

Your splendor are reflecting on my eyes.

Sliding in the night sky like a diamond bar.

Hanging on my hope and dream in your stellar.

Believing that my heart desires will come true.

When you are wishing upon a falling star.

Sliding in the night sky like a diamond bar.

 

THE DARKEST FAIRYTALE EVER BY HANS CHRISTIAN ANDERSEN

Published March 28, 2012 by kwanshim

Fairytale usually ended up happily ever after. But one of the masterpieces written by Hans Christian Andersen is different, because the story is quite dark and does not follow the happily-ever-after term in fairytale. But the story is very interesting to read. The tittle is “The Red Shoes”

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THE RED SHOES

ONCE upon a time there was little girl, pretty and dainty. But in summer time she was obliged to go barefooted because she was poor, and in winter she had to wear large wooden shoes, so that her little instep grew quite red.

In the middle of the village lived an old shoemaker’s wife; she sat down and made, as well as she could, a pair of little shoes out of some old pieces of red cloth. They were clumsy, but she meant well, for they were intended for the little girl, whose name was Karen.

Karen received the shoes and wore them for the first time on the day of her mother’s funeral. They were certainly not suitable for mourning; but she had no others, and so she put her bare feet into them and walked behind the humble coffin.

Just then a large old carriage came by, and in it sat an old lady; she looked at the little girl, and taking pity on her, said to the clergyman, “Look here, if you will give me the little girl, I will take care of her.”

Karen believed that this was all on account of the red shoes, but the old lady thought them hideous, and so they were burnt. Karen herself was dressed very neatly and cleanly; she was taught to read and to sew, and people said that she was pretty. But the mirror told her, “You are more than pretty—you are beautiful.”

One day the Queen was travelling through that part of the country, and had her little daughter, who was a princess, with her. All the people, amongst them Karen too, streamed towards the castle, where the little princess, in fine white clothes, stood before the window and allowed herself to be stared at. She wore neither a train nor a golden crown, but beautiful red morocco shoes; they were indeed much finer than those which the shoemaker’s wife had sewn for little Karen. There is really nothing in the world that can be compared to red shoes!

Karen was now old enough to be confirmed; she received some new clothes, and she was also to have some new shoes. The rich shoemaker in the town took the measure of her little foot in his own room, in which there stood great glass cases full of pretty shoes and white slippers. It all looked very lovely, but the old lady could not see very well, and therefore did not get much pleasure out of it. Amongst the shoes stood a pair of red ones, like those which the princess had worn. How beautiful they were! and the shoemaker said that they had been made for a count’s daughter, but that they had not fitted her.

“I suppose they are of shiny leather?” asked the old lady. “They shine so.”

“Yes, they do shine,” said Karen. They fitted her, and were bought. But the old lady knew nothing of their being red, for she would never have allowed Karen to be confirmed in red shoes, as she was now to be.

Everybody looked at her feet, and the whole of the way from the church door to the choir it seemed to her as if even the ancient figures on the monuments, in their stiff collars and long black robes, had their eyes fixed on her red shoes. It was only of these that she thought when the clergyman laid his hand upon her head and spoke of the holy baptism, of the covenant with God, and told her that she was now to be a grown-up Christian. The organ pealed forth solemnly, and the sweet children’s voices mingled with that of their old leader; but Karen thought only of her red shoes. In the afternoon the old lady heard from everybody that Karen had worn red shoes. She said that it was a shocking thing to do, that it was very improper, and that Karen was always to go to church in future in black shoes, even if they were old.

On the following Sunday there was Communion. Karen looked first at the black shoes, then at the red ones—looked at the red ones again, and put them on.

The sun was shining gloriously, so Karen and the old lady went along the footpath through the corn, where it was rather dusty.

At the church door stood an old crippled soldier leaning on a crutch; he had a wonderfully long beard, more red than white, and he bowed down to the ground and asked the old lady whether he might wipe her shoes. Then Karen put out her little foot too. “Dear me, what pretty dancing-shoes!” said the soldier. “Sit fast, when you dance,” said he, addressing the shoes, and slapping the soles with his hand.

The old lady gave the soldier some money and then went with Karen into the church.

And all the people inside looked at Karen’s red shoes, and all the figures gazed at them; when Karen knelt before the altar and put the golden goblet to her mouth, she thought only of the red shoes. It seemed to her as though they were swimming about in the goblet, and she forgot to sing the psalm, forgot to say the “Lord’s Prayer.”

Now every one came out of church, and the old lady stepped into her carriage. But just as Karen was lifting up her foot to get in too, the old soldier said: “Dear me, what pretty dancing shoes!” and Karen could not help it, she was obliged to dance a few steps; and when she had once begun, her legs continued to dance. It seemed as if the shoes had got power over them. She danced round the church corner, for she could not stop; the coachman had to run after her and seize her. He lifted her into the carriage, but her feet continued to dance, so that she kicked the good old lady violently. At last they took off her shoes, and her legs were at rest.

At home the shoes were put into the cupboard, but Karen could not help looking at them.

Now the old lady fell ill, and it was said that she would not rise from her bed again. She had to be nursed and waited upon, and this was no one’s duty more than Karen’s. But there was a grand ball in cthe town, and Karen was invited. She looked at the red shoes, saying to herself that there was no sin in doing that; she put the red shoes on, thinking there was no harm in that either; and then she went to the ball; and commenced to dance.

But when she wanted to go to the right, the shoes danced to the left, and when she wanted to dance up the room, the shoes danced down the room, down the stairs through the street, and out through the gates of the town. She danced, and was obliged to dance, far out into the dark wood. Suddenly something shone up among the trees, and she believed it was the moon, for it was a face. But it was the old soldier with the red beard; he sat there nodding his head and said: “Dear me, what pretty dancing shoes!”

She was frightened, and wanted to throw the red shoes away; but they stuck fast. She tore off her stockings, but the shoes had grown fast to her feet. She danced and was obliged to go on dancing over field and meadow, in rain and sunshine, by night and by day—but by night it was most horrible.

She danced out into the open churchyard; but the dead there did not dance. They had something better to do than that. She wanted to sit down on the pauper’s grave where the bitter fern grows; but for her there was neither peace nor rest. And as she danced past the open church door she saw an angel there in long white robes, with wings reaching from his shoulders down to the earth; his face was stern and grave, and in his hand he held a broad shining sword.

“Dance you shall,” said he, “dance in your red shoes till you are pale and cold, till your skin shrivels up and you are a skeleton! Dance you shall, from door to door, and where proud and wicked children live you shall knock, so that they may hear you and fear you! Dance you shall, dance—!”

“Mercy!” cried Karen. But she did not hear what the angel answered, for the shoes carried her through the gate into the fields, along highways and byways, and unceasingly she had to dance.

One morning she danced past a door that she knew well; they were singing a psalm inside, and a coffin was being carried out covered with flowers. Then she knew that she was forsaken by every one and damned by the angel of God.

She danced, and was obliged to go on dancing through the dark night. The shoes bore her away over thorns and stumps till she was all torn and bleeding; she danced away over the heath to a lonely little house. Here, she knew, lived the executioner; and she tapped with her finger at the window and said:

“Come out, come out! I cannot come in, for I must dance.”

And the executioner said: “I don’t suppose you know who I am. I strike off the heads of the wicked, and I notice that my axe is tingling to do so.”

“Don’t cut off my head!” said Karen, “for then I could not repent of my sin. But cut off my feet with the red shoes.”

And then she confessed all her sin, and the executioner struck off her feet with the red shoes; but the shoes danced away with the little feet across the field into the deep forest.

And he carved her a pair of wooden feet and some crutches, and taught her a psalm which is always sung by sinners; she kissed the hand that guided the axe, and went away over the heath.

“Now, I have suffered enough for the red shoes,” she said; “I will go to church, so that people can see me.” And she went quickly up to the church-door; but when she came there, the red shoes were dancing before her, and she was frightened, and turned back.

During the whole week she was sad and wept many bitter tears, but when Sunday came again she said: “Now I have suffered and striven enough. I believe I am quite as good as many of those who sit in church and give themselves airs.” And so she went boldly on; but she had not got farther than the churchyard gate when she saw the red shoes dancing along before her. Then she became terrified, and turned back and repented right heartily of her sin.

She went to the parsonage, and begged that she might be taken into service there. She would be industrious, she said, and do everything that she could; she did not mind about the wages as long as she had a roof over her, and was with good people. The pastor’s wife had pity on her, and took her into service. And she was industrious and thoughtful. She sat quiet and listened when the pastor read aloud from the Bible in the evening. All the children liked her very much, but when they spoke about dress and grandeur and beauty she would shake her head.

On the following Sunday they all went to church, and she was asked whether she wished to go too; but, with tears in her eyes, she looked sadly at her crutches. And then the others went to hear God’s Word, but she went alone into her little room; this was only large enough to hold the bed and a chair. Here she sat down with her hymn-book, and as she was reading it with a pious mind, the wind carried the notes of the organ over to her from the church, and in tears she lifted up her face and said: “O God! help me!”

Then the sun shone so brightly, and right before her stood an angel of God in white robes; it was the same one whom she had seen that night at the church-door. He no longer carried the sharp sword, but a beautiful green branch, full of roses; with this he touched the ceiling, which rose up very high, and where he had touched it there shone a golden star. He touched the walls, which opened wide apart, and she saw the organ which was pealing forth; she saw the pictures of the old pastors and their wives, and the congregation sitting in the polished chairs and singing from their hymn-books. The church itself had come to the poor girl in her narrow room, or the room had gone to the church. She sat in the pew with the rest of the pastor’s household, and when they had finished the hymn and looked up, they nodded and said, “It was right of you to come, Karen.”

“It was mercy,” said she.

The organ played and the children’s voices in the choir sounded soft and lovely. The bright warm sunshine streamed through the window into the pew where Karen sat, and her heart became so filled with it, so filled with peace and joy, that it broke. Her soul flew on the sunbeams to Heaven, and no one was there who asked after the Red Shoes.

KITOU AYA’s QUOTATION

Published March 28, 2012 by kwanshim

What’s wrong with falling down?

You can always stand up again.

(Kitou Aya’s quotation from her diary, “One Litre of Tears”.)

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       Falling down?!! Every people are so scared in experiencing that kind of happening. So, instead of trying anything first, people are choosing to not try at all because of the anxiety of falling down. Because of that anxiety too, people sometimes are considering too much in deciding something in their life. Of course, thinking about the consequences of everything is very wise, but considering too much resembles to hesitancy.

             After contemplating Kitou Aya’s quotation, I was coming to my sense and gthinking that quotation is very right and encouraging. So, the point is not the falling down, but how we manage to stand up again after the falling down. Falling down is like a whip for us to never give up, even though we are facing a lot of obstacles in our life and in the way to reach our dreams.

            So, if we fall down in the midway of our life, consider it as the process of maturity. Falling down hurts so much, so the next time we walk and try everything, we will be more careful and try even harder to reach our dreams without being obstacled by falling down.

SNOW~~ SNOW~~ SNOW~~

Published March 28, 2012 by kwanshim

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I DON’T KNOW WHY… ALTHOUGH I HAVEN’T EVER EXPERIENCED SNOW BY LIVING IN THE FOUR-SEASON COUNTRIES, I LOVEEEE SNOW VERRRYYY MUCHHH… MAYBE BECAUSE, SNOW IS RELATED TO SOMETHING ROMANTIC, CLARITY, AND SERENITY. BY WATCHING THE FALLING SNOW GLISTENED FROM THE SKY, OUR MIND WILL BE WANDERING EVERYWHERE, THINKING ABOUT SOMETHING FUN AND BY LOOKING AT THE SNOWFLAKES, IT CAN MELT EVEN THE MOST FROZEN HEART. KEKEKE~~~ PARDON ME FOR HAVING AN ABSURD FONDNESS TOWARD SNOW…

MY VILLANELLE

Published March 11, 2012 by kwanshim

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RAINDROP

 

The drizzle come soaking the whole nature.

Falling harmoniously with the thunder gleam.

Illuminating the eternal moisture.

 

Flowing the chill for the living creature.

Drenching the hemisphere in agility.

The drizzle come soaking the whole nature.

 

Eventually cracking the stone texture.

By the swift dripping of the raindrop stream.

Illuminating the eternal moisture.

 

The scent of flowers blossoming in mixture.

Beneath the calm dampness and purity.

The drizzle come soaking the whole nature.

 

In every drop reflecting a love gesture.

Bringing up all of the people’s hope and dream.

Illuminating the eternal moisture.

 

The rainbow radiantly shine the beam.

Colored the landscape with tranquility.

The drizzle come soaking the whole nature.

Illuminating the eternal moisture.

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MY SWEET DREAMS

Published March 11, 2012 by kwanshim

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       OK, it’s just about a dream, but it’s kind of impressing, so I want badly sharing and writing it in my blog. So, here the story goes…..

       One night, I had a weird yet sweet dream in my sleep. I dreamed about “him” (my crush and I also called him “my endorphine”, because he makes me go to the college enthusiastically then I can feel some happiness and smile widely just by seeing his handsome face). Back to the story, I was walking alone in my dream when suddenly the rain started to drop. I fasten my pace so that I would not be drenching wet. Suddenly, I felt the shade of an umbrella, and when I turned around, I saw him smiling to me and asked me sweetly, “Why don’t you wait for me?”. I just cannot forget the sweetness of his smile (even in reality). After that, we walked together while I swayed our intertwined hands beneath the raindrop. We’re joking like a couple and teasing each other.

       What makes this dream different from the other dreams is because all of the happenings in the dream were crystal clear and I could see his face like in real, also before the dream happened, I absolutely was not thinking or longing about him. So, the dream came to my sleep just like that. Then, at the end of the story, he accompanied me to my house in my hometown, Malang. It’s the most confusing and the weirdest, because we met each other in Jogjakarta, in UGM, so there is nothing to do with my hometown.

       Although it’s very sweet and I was hoping that it will come true, I decided to treat the dream as the “flower of the sleep” and nothing considered seriously in real life.

 

 

 

BEST FRIENDS

Published March 4, 2012 by kwanshim


 

Once, when I was browsing in the internet, I found Sarah Jessica Parker’s quote about best friends. She said :

A best friend is like a four leaf clover.

Hard to find and lucky to have.

            After that, I kinda contemplating that quotation and it’s absolutely right. We all know that in the Western condition, when someone is finding a four leaf clover, also called “shamrock” in Ireland, they will find their luck, because the clover is hardly found in a common time. Same like a best friend, it’s so hard to find, because not all of the people can accept both of our superiority and most importantly, our inferiority. Then at the same time, a best friend is so lucky to have because a best friend is someone where we can share all of our secrets and sighs, also someone who we can rely on. So, once you have found your best friends, you must treasure them as the most valuable things in your life.

Every people has best friends, so do I. I have found the people that know me so well and I addressed them as my best friends. They always find the way to understand me even from all of my absurdity sometimes. I feel like they are the valuable treasures in my life. Thank you so much, my best friends….. I hope we can be friends forever….